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Lesson 7.6: Defining and Maintaining Abstinence

Lesson Goals

  • Define abstinence and postponement.
  • Identify reasons why abstinence is a healthy choice for teens.
  • Identify links between abstinence and goals.
  • Practice and demonstrate refusal skills relating to abstinence.
  • Explain the relationship between drug and alcohol use and abstinence.

Connecting the Lessons

Builds on Lesson 7.5: Deciding About Sexual Behavior.

Planning ahead: Concepts learned in this lesson will be useful for Lesson 7.7: Introduction to Sexually Transmitted Infections and Lesson 7.8: Introduction to Protection Methods.

SEL Skills Addressed

  • Self-awareness
  • Self-management
  • Relationship skills
  • Responsible decision making

Logic Model Determinant(s)

  • Increase awareness of delaying sex as the healthiest choice.
  • Address values around abstinence and sex.
  • Address perceptions of peer norms regarding sexual behavior.
  • Increase self-efficacy of SEL skills to delay and /or refuse sex.
  • Increase communication with parents and other caring adults.
  • Increase knowledge of how drugs and alcohol can affect decision making around sexual behavior.